Simone Heng wrote about finding Mr Right in her column 'Sexless in the City'. She cited her experience of bringing her date to a BBQ and leaving him alone. I think that's rather mean of her. If you decide to date him, you should not feel uncomfortable holding his hand. It is just holding his hand, your date's hand, not anything more than that. She could have at least introduced him to her friends, so that he would not feel so left out. She should have thought of his feelings and how he saw the two of them. Keeping a distance from him was definitely hurting him.
She claims that she has gotten used to going to outings without a partner. In that case, she could have chosen not to bring him. Who says you have to bring your date on an outing with your friends? After all, she had her old friends to talk to.
She mentions her girlfriend as being one that cuts off contact with her friends for her partner. I guess most girls are guilty of this. Both of them find security with their partners and that is normal for girls. We always see men as the epitome of strength and safety, who can take care of us and protect us against harm.
Well, I hope she finds that "man whose hand (she) cannot resist taking in (hers) to tell the world that (they) are together." That will be a paradisal experience for her.
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