Friday, August 22, 2008

Deciding not to give in.

The title would cause one to think it is about temptation but it can be about emotion too. Sometimes that can make us do things harmful to ourselves. No, I don't mean suicide, of course not. I am referring to eating out of depression.

It's so ironic that I am writing this immediately after receiving a subscribed email on seeking solace in other things when upset.

A long walk is good to think things through actually. Talking things out to a trusted friend is another option or what about writing things out, whether in a personal diary or in a blog?

Isolation is not recommended but I find myself lapsing into it, especially when I don't seem to get understanding after confiding. I use this process to talk to God.

Ok, I'm drifting away from the topic. I was upset over the weekend and wanted to give in to eating my favourite food, XXL Chicken from Shilin. However I knew that it was a result of being upset. I didn't exactly crave for it. It was like using the food to make myself less depressed. So I made a conscious decision to get something healthy like sushi and I'm proud that I managed to discipline myself to do so.

Thus the key solution to this problem is discipline. When you're aware in your mind that you're eating to escape from a problem and not because you want to eat, that's a warning to your body not to give in to that desire. The choice is really yours from that moment on.

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