Our relationship has been growing stronger and this makes my mum's soul rest in peace. She was worried that our headstrong characters will clash, at her deathbed. My tongue is still sharp and I tend to be rather strong with my words. I am trying to curb it because I know my dad is sensitive. I am also trying to be more patient with him. Age is catching up with him and he is forgetful at times. I must let my pride and lack of understanding be quelled!
People say I'm a good daughter but it's my duty. I know he needs me to give him my time too. Anyway, the bible says we must not look down on our parents when they grow old. Now it's just my dad and I, since my brother is married. I think my dad's a good father and I know he loves me a lot. He tries to listen to me when I share and sometimes I get impatient when he takes time to understand something. That's not good on my side. He buys what I want and waits patiently when I am late in meeting him. I am glad I got to buy him lunch on my parents' wedding anniversary, since my mum's not with us anymore.
We share a lot on our thoughts and about life. I really treasure spending time with him. Though time with my friends and on work is compromised, the bigger picture is being with my dad. It's great going to shopping malls with him. We give each other time to walk on our own before meeting to go home. I can walk wherever I want, without feeling guilty for dragging my companion around with me. Then after we meet, we share with each other our adventures in exploring the place. :)) I feel comfortable speaking to him about the birds and the bees too, since we are mature adults. I've never felt this way before. :))
We went to Macau and it was good. We are going on a cruise this Chinese New Year, since it's the first one without my mum. I am excited because the ship's attractions look enticing and I have my camera to take pictures with! I have been sharing the information on the ship that I find on the website with my dad. We take turns to carry out the check-in procedures. I do the online portion and he does the actual check-in on the day we leave. Perfect teamwork!
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